Don’t let others belittle your ambitions!

Keep away from those who try to belittle your ambitions… I very much agree with this, but sometimes this is hard to do especially if a spouse/partner, family member, or good friend is involved.  I’ve touched upon this in the last post or so.  It’s the negativity of what they are thinking and saying about what you would like to do for a career, your ambitions to better your life, and for your future goals and dreams.  Feeling that they are qualified and have the knowledge about the work that you want to do, they will try to talk you out of it or change your mind- don’t let them.  They’ll bring out the “Why do you want to do that?” and the “You can’t do that” and other non supportive remarks.  More than likely, they are not knowledgeable and just using the information that they made up.  Because you’ve done your research, you do have the knowledge and the motivation to do it- something that you want to do that you will enjoy and make you happy.  Many of them want you to stay where you are, at their level, and not to be in a better position than them nor do they want you to be happier than they are.  Do you really want to hang around with these people?

You may want to do some clearing and gathering- clearing of friends and family members that don’t support you and gather those that do support you.  Keep them at a distance, as best you can, you don’t need or want their negative vibrations taking you away from your goals.  This will mean that you may have to find others to support you, to lift you up, to help you get to where you want to go.  This shouldn’t be a problem, you will find people as you start to work on what you want to do- at network meetings, gatherings, expos, in your community, wherever you meet people that have the same interests that you do.  I’ve recently had to do this and I am feeling better and in a better place now than I was a year or so ago.  I look at it as going on a diet- dropping the extra pounds that keep me from looking and feeling better and healthier, and at the same time, working out to get fit and build healthy muscle to support my new look.

As you want support for your goals and dreams, please  support others in their quest to do want they want to do, and not belittle them nor be negative towards them.

We all have belittlers in our lives- you just have to decide that you want to take charge of your life, to make the changes necessary to improve your situations, take responsibility, and stop making excuses- just do it!  This is for you, not for anyone else.  You know what you want to do, so go for it.  If you are not sure what you want to do, but want to make changes to better yourself and your situations- that’s a good start… Allow me to help you get started on your new path or to help you continue your venture.  I am here for you, whatever you want to do (as long as it is not negative or abusive), I am here to support you, to give you the inspiration, motivation, and confidence along the way.  Are we a perfect fit for each other?… Find out more about me, the work that I do, and the services that I provide: http://www.lmdwealthhealthhappiness.net/about/

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Heart-Centeredly,
Len